You’re entitled to your anger. You’re entitled to your bitterness. It doesn’t make you as bad as the people who hurt you. It doesn’t make you abusive to finally lash out and snap at your abusers. It’s a recognized and common tactic for abusers to accuse their victims of being the perpetrator of the toxicity and abuse. It’s not your fault though. You aren’t as bad as them just because they finally pushed you to the breaking point.
You aren’t a bad person or a “bad victim” for your justified anger. You don’t have to carry any guilt if the final straw ended in you telling someone how they hurt you. You aren’t the bad guy for resenting the way you were treated. You aren’t deserving of it because you raised your voice or said harsh words.
Lilypad has been updated! I’ve been working really hard and I really love how my town has come together so far. It’s still pretty far from being complete but there was an orange/purple sunset in my town and I needed to take advantage!
Lilypad is a forest town in late November, with a mix of Zen and rustic public works projects. Visit Rose the town gardener to buy some plants or relax in the library, or stop by Mayor Ceri’s house for an eclectic mix.
I’d love feedback, suggestions, and to see photos of your visit! Tag your posts with acnl lilypad, or IM me directly. Thanks (♡∀♡)
dont get why teeth need nerves and shit in em. dont know why i cant just have my mouth rocks obliterate my food without them making me feel like there are wasps inside my gums desperately trying to get out every time i eat something with more than a teaspoon of sugar or anything 10 degrees above or below room tempurature
